Author: lethasrealtalk

In this season my heart goes out to the people who do all they can to stay safe and protect those they love. Especially when we see many have neglected the safety of those who love them so -physically, emotionally and mentally. Whenever is enough enough. We can’t expect the younger ones to care when the thoughts, consideration, and safety you don’t bare-!!!! Sadly this pandemic is real yet the mentality of most seems to be it is what it is. Let them live yet their negligence jeopardizes those who truly care ability to give, especially when it’s not a thought of the precautions to stay safe, even when we don’t want to sit still- Some people I want to hug I can’t but to see how other can wrap their arm around others and embrace them so– I just can’t fathom to shake! This pandemonium hurt is showing the world especially those who care that your negligence some of you appears to be unthoughtfully crude. Some people have went out the way to accept and stay safe while others have dropped the ball because like many others it’s pretended they care to be safe. Thought: some people’s loved ones are no longer here because of the negligence of those they cherished so dear.!!!! Do not expect the world to care if you are not doing the right things during this pandemic what’s right, just, and precautionary!!!

America the place of which I was born, yet I see all the detriment that black people over time has worn. Seeking to be welcomed in this hateful place, not forcing ourselves hard enough to win the race. Africa the land where the oldest bones are known, yet our mindset will not allow us to culturally transform. Should we move to the freedom of open arms, yet we choose to stay with America because this is where we were born. Is America my home for my mindset that fact is not known. Land of the free home of the brave, steady beat and gunned down by others and ourselves like they did the slaves. America, all the years of life my family has done, now I am mentally convinced the place was not meant to be my home.

COVID 19 disparity

Well, people have to decide to make their choices and live with the outcome. People do what they want a lot of the time instead of what they should be doing. Sadly when people don’t listen and help doesn’t come then who is responsible for what we have been warned. Moving forward, people need to be more self-sufficient even for their jobs or additional income. Also people need to ease up on retail shopping and get land. Yes I have some. It is called choices for the long term. This earth will provide for you what you need if you let it. What happened to sewing, farming, eating less and spending less, that way when a disaster hits those who have made the choice to live a certain lifestyle are less stressed. I am sure those who are minimalist are not impacted as bad because they changed their mindset that’s it’s ok to live off less and have more financial resources put up to the side. If I was able to do it from working minimum wage and having multiple repossessions anywho has the willing mind to make the adjustments can. Choose life over bills and money.

When you observe you learn, however one must be willing do what needs to be done. Over time the black community has become segregated within itself at the fault of itself. There are two main areas: home and church. At some point within our homes the ball was dropped. Women and men cohabitate with each other or some of each other or a lot of each other our children grow up in tainted environments where there is no sustainability. We have allowed too much outside influence from other ethnicities of people to tell us how not to live and how not to raise our children. God first with majority 2 parent households of husbands and wives was the core of our structure. We fell slave of a system and society of people where the very laws and rules that was put in place to keep us down, yet and still not many of us are taking responsibility. Men you are needed. Men you must rise up and lead like the head and not make excuses for not doing what you know you are suppose to do. In order to lead you must have God as the head or you add to us being doomed. Ladies it is time to encourage our men. Let our men know you appreciate them. Do not beat up on them because the chaos of the world is already against them. Men and women stand together in respect for each other and love each other. Children need to see love expressed as well as feel loved. Our future deserves not to be thrown out to the wolves no matter what society says. Please black community we have way too many churches. The constant segregation needs to end but yet it is rising with record numbers. A merger of our churches is needed. We are too spread out. We must be able together to turn toward each other and pull together and sacrifice for survival. We need more unity, we need more love for ourselves and most of all we need God.

Be loving and affectionate to those who love you. Never allow those you love to have to wonder by the lack of affection or attention thereof. For those who love you are few. A simple smile, hug, and I love you goes a long way. For if the wonder of doubt sets in they possibly may go astray!